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Post by martin on Sept 22, 2006 5:25:30 GMT -5
I dont know what tto do. I love my gf (she is younger then me) 17 and I think I love a girl online lol. Okay but we've talked online for 4 yearsd webcam/phone etc. We havent met yet but we have always been there for each other. I was diagnosed with eplepsy and told not to be under stress. problem is my gf puts me under lots of stress. I thik shes brain washing me to hate this girl and i dont know what to do. i only have attacks when the stress comes. this girl online is so caring and there for me all the time and my gf can never have a conversation with me. i just dont know what to do. this girl online and I live very close as well (10 min). my gf lives 4-5 hours away.
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Post by ♥Monizzle♥ on Sept 22, 2006 18:58:43 GMT -5
I think for starters you should pretend your online friend doesn't exist, now if you think your girl friend is giving you stress and making things hard for you before your online friend showed up i would think about breaking up.
Before you make any immediate action with the online girl i would meet her (( not by your self tho with friends)) Then become friends with her and then decide if you realy "Love her".
If your girlfriend was not bothering you at all before this i think you should talk to her about it ab how you feel about how she is acting!
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Post by Sparkle on Sept 23, 2006 2:44:06 GMT -5
I agree with Monizzle
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Post by littlemikey on Sept 23, 2006 4:49:58 GMT -5
Agreed too Meet her before you say that you love her.
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Post by ♥Monizzle♥ on Sept 23, 2006 13:17:08 GMT -5
Yes you don't want to say Theo's words until you guys have hung out and got to know each other for a little while and then see if you still think she is the girl you knew on the Internet or a completely different person ((personalty wise)) Because people online can act allot different then they really are.
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Post by martin on Sept 23, 2006 13:29:32 GMT -5
well my friends know her and i've met her once before. I wish i could go back and just be with her and not my gf. its so hard. i dont know what to do at all. do you have any other suggestions? i talk to my gf ALL the time about it and she can never talk to me maturely shes just like idunno okay.
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Post by goochmonster on Sept 25, 2006 23:00:47 GMT -5
Ok first of all, all women are a pain in the ass. Your "online gf" is the same as cheating. If you're not sure on what to do, talk to your gf and tell her how you feel. Don't sit and hold it all in and think that talking to some "online gf" is gonna solve anything cause it isn't going to. If she can't handle how you feel then it isn't worth the effort because it doesn't make for a very sturdy relationship.
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Post by Jessi Wessi™ on Sept 25, 2006 23:20:04 GMT -5
I totally DISAGREE with goochmonster on the women thing. Not all women are pain in the asses. Infact many are extremely nice and caring and it's the guys who are pain in the asses (excuse my language). You can't just go blaming all females for what a couple of them do.
Now, I agree with Monizzle. You also have to think about who do you think would be there for you when you need it most. It is a hard desision but if you need time to think then you may want to think about breaking up with your gf and just taking some time off, for yourself.
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Post by goochmonster2 on Sept 26, 2006 3:25:37 GMT -5
So lemme get this straight, you tell me not to categorize girls as being pain in the asses but you follow that up by saying guys are pain in the asses?
Secondly, most guys can do without the drama and games. Girls make it so much harder on themselves.
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Post by ♥Monizzle♥ on Sept 26, 2006 12:49:59 GMT -5
He is asking for suggestions nt a debate make a new thread Ok i agree with underneath_the_smiles if you still need time to think i suggest taking a "break" and make sure you see how your girlfriend thinks about that.
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Post by Viper on Sept 26, 2006 13:41:16 GMT -5
Monizzle has very good advice here I agree with her.
Like they said just take a step back and think about it, maybe meet your online gf about 3 or 4 times before you decide because 1 time does not seem like enough.
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Post by martin on Sept 29, 2006 3:55:18 GMT -5
k im going to take a break and meet up with this girl again
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