bandguy
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Post by bandguy on Oct 11, 2006 20:01:54 GMT -5
Ive liked this gilr who is real hot and i really like her but im not sure how to ask her out.I keep chickening out.IM not sure what to do.PLease help.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Oct 11, 2006 20:08:49 GMT -5
There are several cheesy techniques you can use to lower your chances of rejection [because everyones scared of rejections] (such as making a bet with a girl and the loser has to make them dinner) but these kinds of games are unnecessary. If you are straightforward, and don't beat around the bush about what you want, a girl will respect and admire your confidence.
Optimally, you would ask her in a face-to-face setting. However, if that is not possible, either because the opportunity won't present itself or because you aren't confident enough, your best alternative would be over the phone.
Avoid, at all costs, asking through email or any other written medium (Instant Messenger, a note, etc.). Not only do these methods scream "CHICKEN!" they also leave behind a paper trail that may or may not come back to haunt you.
Think about what you are going to say before you say it, look nice (shower,smell good etc)
One way to avoid looking like an idiot is to have something in mind to say for these three possible reactions to your question so you won't be caught off guard :
If she says "yes"
Have a plan in mind; know your schedule and have an idea to suggest.
If she says "no"
Don't act shocked or offended. Just be like, "Alright." Then carry on the conversation as if you never asked. Be friendly and polite. Too often guys take a "no" personally and get ticked off. Girls don't admire or respect a negative reaction. The fact that you were able to brush off her rejection so easily may actually raise her interest.
If she says "some other time"
Have a plan B in case she is busy. If she still acts like she has too much to do it's probably because she's not interested and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Accept it as a rejection and move on.
Of course, you go into it expecting her to say "yes" but it's, as with most things in life, it's important to be prepared for the worst.
Hae fun with it! She says YES then AWESOME she says no shrug it off and go for another girl!
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bandguy
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Post by bandguy on Oct 12, 2006 6:48:35 GMT -5
Thanks a lot,still a little nervous.Maybe ill try today.Not sure yet
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bandguy
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Post by bandguy on Oct 12, 2006 16:33:52 GMT -5
I asked her out today...its a yes.Where going to a highschool football game and the movies.this weekend.Its going to be cold at the game and its supposed to snow so i hope they still play.Theyve called of the game for snow before.anyways thought id tell you all.
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~XNatzX~
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Post by ~XNatzX~ on Oct 19, 2006 11:10:54 GMT -5
aw thats great have fun.
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[Beefy]
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Post by [Beefy] on Oct 19, 2006 14:38:15 GMT -5
I hope all goes well :] If it does snow then make a snowman or have a flirty snowball fight ;]
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