Post by Jessi Wessi™ on Oct 21, 2006 15:33:35 GMT -5
I wasn't sure where this would go but I'm having a problem with Friendship so I put it here.
About three weeks ago I found out that my friend Elphie was dating two guys. One of the guys I happened to know. Kaine is really sweet and extremely nice so I got mad at her. She told me that it's alright to have an online boyfriend and a regular boyfriend. I got really pissed about it because I have an 'online boyfriend' and I have also been through many broken hearts so I know how Kaine would feel. Well after a lot of shouting at her I told her that she should make a decision soon before it got way out of hand. I mentioned that I hated cheaters and that I had no respect for them. She told me okay and that she would break up with at least one of them.
Well today I find out that she didn't break up with either of them and was holding onto both of them while she slowly made up her mind on what to do. I imediatly confronted her and she said that she was working on it. I told her that she had three weeks to 'work on it' and that she had to make up her mind now. She started to get pissed with me that I was being so nasty to her.
To make a long story short I did a lot of cursing at her and I called her some not so nice things. Kaine found out after my boyfriend (the same one from above) told him. My boyfriend didn't really know Kaine but he saw how much it affected me and he's been cheated on before so he helped. Well Kaine broke it off with Elphie and she's trying to make me feel bad for all this. She is telling me now that I am a bad friend and that I should have been supportive of her.
She threatened to never come online again and then signed off. But anyway, my question is.....am I a bad friend for this?
About three weeks ago I found out that my friend Elphie was dating two guys. One of the guys I happened to know. Kaine is really sweet and extremely nice so I got mad at her. She told me that it's alright to have an online boyfriend and a regular boyfriend. I got really pissed about it because I have an 'online boyfriend' and I have also been through many broken hearts so I know how Kaine would feel. Well after a lot of shouting at her I told her that she should make a decision soon before it got way out of hand. I mentioned that I hated cheaters and that I had no respect for them. She told me okay and that she would break up with at least one of them.
Well today I find out that she didn't break up with either of them and was holding onto both of them while she slowly made up her mind on what to do. I imediatly confronted her and she said that she was working on it. I told her that she had three weeks to 'work on it' and that she had to make up her mind now. She started to get pissed with me that I was being so nasty to her.
To make a long story short I did a lot of cursing at her and I called her some not so nice things. Kaine found out after my boyfriend (the same one from above) told him. My boyfriend didn't really know Kaine but he saw how much it affected me and he's been cheated on before so he helped. Well Kaine broke it off with Elphie and she's trying to make me feel bad for all this. She is telling me now that I am a bad friend and that I should have been supportive of her.
She threatened to never come online again and then signed off. But anyway, my question is.....am I a bad friend for this?