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Post by -Whittney- on Oct 31, 2006 20:53:29 GMT -5
I wasnt sure if this was the right place to put it so if its not im sorry. Okay well my little sister Jordan is 10 years old and has alot of things wrong with her. Where do I start? She has ADHD, Aspburgers, she is *ack cant remember the word.. Its where she writes things backwords.*, She takes a bunch of medication for her problems. I cant remember the rest of her disorders but she is seriously messed up. I love my sister to death and it pisses me off beyond belief when the kids in her class and even worse older kids make fun of her. Now I have serious anger problems and everytime she comes home crying about how some kid made fun of the way she looked *or even worse they hurt her.* I get EXTREMELY pissed off. I told her to tell me whenever someone makes fun of her because I would beat the crap out of them because she of all people dont deserve their crap. *sorry I get angry just thinking about this.* I wish people would just freakin lay off making fun of her because she is so closed up now it scares me. Last year when I was tucking her in she asked me if me and my mother would be happy if she were dead and now every second I worry she is going to try and kill herself. She is only 10! She is terrified of Psycologists and doctors and she cries when my mom says she has to go. I dont know what to do anymore. Im a very stressful person and I know im not her mother but im still her older sister.. What should I do? I cant put her in a bubble forever..
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Post by Marzon on Oct 31, 2006 22:10:59 GMT -5
Let's be honest, you won't beat up 10 year olds, or how old those people are. If you would, then look into anger management. The reasonable thing is to tell your parents and the teacher. No need to use violence when there's no need for it.
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Post by Ruby on Nov 1, 2006 10:24:42 GMT -5
My brother is 11. He is dyslexic (like your sister-writing things backwards) and he stutters. I agree that you should tell your parents or a teacher. What you can do is spend a lot of time with her and make sure she knows how much you love her. She needs some encouragement so praise her often and when she is sad, give her a pep talk and cheer her up again. Good luck, and I hope your little sister isn't teased anymore.
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Post by -Whittney- on Nov 1, 2006 15:21:05 GMT -5
I have tried the whole anger management thing and it doesnt really work out. My dad told the psychologist dude that he would sue the guy if he kept on holding sessions with me. The other day Jordan came up to me and told me these group of middle schoolers were picking on her and pushing her during my softball practice. I literally stormed around the middle school campus looking for the dirtbags until my sister finally convinced me that they left a long time ago. I was sooo furious it was unreal. I tell Jordan all the time that she can come tell me anything because im the only one that understands her. I know what its like to be different and to be picked on about stupid stuff. I know how damaging people can be with words. I have seen and experienced what happens to people and I wish she didnt have to go through with that. Because of the way she is she has no friends and the people who are her 'friends' just use her then ditch her when they are done. Do you think im being a little too oversensitive about this or something? I know that everyone gets picked on once in a while but for Jordan it happens 24/7. My other 2 little sisters are more popular than she is so they pick on her too. My anger issues have caused problems with her too because sometimes I seriously wan to be left alone by everything and everyone and she doesnt understand that so it makes me angry. Then she gets sad and I feel as bad as the kids out there picking on her. I try to keep my temper around her as much as I can but sometimes I fail horribly. My parents dont understand where I am coming from with her and her teachers say they are going to do something but never do because 'they didnt see anything.' or 'Maybe Johnny didnt mean to push her down and call her names. he is a good boy.' Ugh it drives me insane.
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Nov 3, 2006 21:25:45 GMT -5
Could she switch schools?
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on Nov 4, 2006 4:53:14 GMT -5
OMGASH THAT IS HORRIBLE!! kids are soo cruel *mumbles under breath* maybe you have to get it to happen in front of a teacher? Isnt there a school counseller thats compentent? I mean come on your sister doesn't need to be put thru that, kids need to really learn these things ITS NOT OKAY TO HURT OTHERS! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.......... k calm now.. hmm... I dont think you are overreacting.. I honor you because most sisters wouldn't give a *beep* and YOU DO. You seem like a great sister.. be there for her like you have been... tell her that those other kids only say it because they feel bad about themselves and it really has nothing to do with her.. which is the truth.. kids only make fun of other kids because they are missing something themselves.... soo yeah.. I wish you luck,.. Im kind of hyper right now but you can message me whenever you want too and don't beat up little kids because then you might get in shit and be taken away or something and then your sister won't have anyone.. you could also file police reports ig they harras her on a constant basis.. cuz thats illigeal..
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Post by biancasaur on Nov 6, 2006 13:11:23 GMT -5
I agree it might be good for her to switch schools, or be home-schooled (if your family is in a situation to do that). There are alternative schools out there, depending on where you live, you can research them on the Internet. If it's not possible to switch, all you can do is inform teachers or administrators at the school about what's going on, and just talk to your sister a lot about how beautiful and wonderful she is, and how the kids at school are just ignorant. She should feel sorry for those losers, because she's going to grow up strong and confident in herself, while they're just insecure and have to pick on others just to feel good about themselves.
Good luck!
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