*PreciousPrincess*
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Post by *PreciousPrincess* on Jan 18, 2007 16:40:11 GMT -5
July this yea I joined a new school, afterbeing constantly bulied at my old school. About a month before I left, I told this guy I fancied him (probably not ym est move.) For the rest of my time there, I was picked on over my crush.
When I started my new school, I ws put in the charge of the "Perfects." a group of girs who thought they literally were perfect. I so didn't fit in. But i trid my best, even wearing a skirt to school(shock horror!) Well, seeing as I wasn't a girly-girl, I spent most of my time hanging with the guys. But when these girls decided it was time to go, off I was sent. I have made friends with what could be called "the nerds" now but they are wonderful-proper friends. But one of the guys from earlier, I now fancy like mad. I havn't a clue how to get to know him as the Perfects influence everyone and they don't really like me. Problem is, I ahve no confidence as I'm afraid what happened at my old school will happen again. And seeing as I have no self confidence, I don't deem myself good enough for his "lot" Any ideas how I can (subtly) get to know him???
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Post by Will on Jan 18, 2007 23:33:50 GMT -5
You're going to hear this from everyone. The correct answer here is, "Get over your insecurity and talk to him". Everyone is going to tell you this, and both you and I know it's not going to work that easily.
What you might have to do is realise that the perfects don't hate you, they just don't like you and that means you're not in their favour. The only way you can join them is to humiliate and degrade yourself, and please don't do that. There's another way.
If you be yourself, calm and clear and bright, then automatically that turns away those you have nothing to gain or learn from. This is why the perfects are repelled by your nature, because you have nothing to learn from them and they have nothing to learn from you. Subconsciously you realise this, this is why you don't feel right hanging around them. But also this has the added effect of attracting that guy.
We're magnets, aren't we? Not magnets. We're iron, wrapped in copper wire, and whenever we want to magnetise ourselves we can. A magnet is not anxious about how it works. It is itself, and by its nature it draws some things and leaves others untouched.
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Nerevarine
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Post by Nerevarine on Jan 21, 2007 20:44:50 GMT -5
I think confidence is a key word as well. People are attracted to confident people. ^ Thats really good advice.
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Post by Italian Stallion on Jan 30, 2007 14:02:25 GMT -5
is there anything u both are interested in?
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