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Post by biancasaur on Apr 8, 2006 23:24:37 GMT -5
I just read my post again and I realize I kind of sounded harsh. I didn't meant to imply you had psychological problems, just that you sound like some people I know who have a lot of issues with sex. You know, I went through the same thing at one time, and I think most people do too. It's true that most people go through it a little younger, perhaps, but it's not unheard of. Maybe you are just taking your time to mature sexually. The important thing is that you and your girlfriend understand each other, and no one pressures you. Not having sex is just as valid as having sex, and there's an added bonus of not having to worry about pregnancy or STIs.
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Post by biancasaur on Apr 8, 2006 23:28:10 GMT -5
Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that I know a lot of people whose first sexual experience was not until 18 or after. One person I know waited until the age of 22. One of my closest friends has not had sex and, in her own words, "she plans to keep it that way" for a while; she's 19. (She's also told me she's just not interested in sex at all.) So you're not alone!
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Post by littlemikey on Apr 8, 2006 23:42:10 GMT -5
Thankyou for your advice
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Post by Viper on Apr 23, 2006 18:41:00 GMT -5
Dont worry about it! It sounds normale to me. I am also a virgin waiting tel marrige. I dontthink you have anything to worry about myself.
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Post by hello on Apr 30, 2006 3:13:58 GMT -5
Hey littlemikey,
Don't worry about it bud, it's great to be a virgin in some cases. If you and your girlfriend are waiting until marriage (if that is a possibility some day) then don't think about it. When you do have sex, it will be great because it's with someone you love. That will probably be the best feeling in your life too and well, that is basically all I can say.
You go man ;D. Nothing is wrong with you. Remember that.
Even if you don't get a sex drive all the time that doesn't mean anything, I do but that is just how I am. Everyone is different. Let me ask you this though, do you masturbate once a week or monthly?...if not, then you should. Either that, or just massage your penis so you know nothing is wrong.
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Post by ♥ Victoria ♥ on Apr 30, 2006 15:20:40 GMT -5
I respect so much the way you think littlemikey. If you and your girlfriend dont want sex now then its always good and there is nothing bad about that. If you love eachothers then you guys both no that you aint together for SEX but LOVE. Do what your heart tells you to do but always stay Logic cause the heart can make mistakes sometimes. AS long as you are both happy that way, dont let people change your way of doing things, your way of thinking. You are your only Master
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Post by Jesusfreak on Apr 30, 2006 23:52:43 GMT -5
There are some things about me that amaze some people: - I am 17, turning 18 this year
- I have a girlfriend
- I am a virgin
Alot of these people cant seem to understand why I havent had sex with my girlfriend. I dont want to, and niether does she. Several people (mostly girls suprisingly) think that I should break up with her and find someone else, so I can sleep with her. I love my girlfriend, but I just dont feel the need for sexual contact in our relationship. I dont want to have sex. I dont even look at porn (I have a female friend who is shocked at the fact that she looks at more porn then I do ). I have no sex drive whatsoever. I even get embarrased talking about sex in general (imagine how I feel writing this) Am I normal for a 17 year old male? What is wrong with me? What can I do? Any comments would be appreciated. Count yourself EXTREMELY lucky. Unfortunately, I am tempted every day with sexual urges, and while I am still a virgin, it is very hard for me not to clutter my mind with the "wants" of my sexual desires. No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin, I can't believe that this is actually a questionable...question. (Although you are a moderator and may be posting this for activity)...lol Keeping your virginty should never be second-guessed. What is wrong is pre-marital sex, as my beliefs dictate that in order to have sex, one must be married. Count your blessings that you don't have any temptations in this field, it's some hard stuff to overcome. I struggle with it every day.
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Post by goochmonster on May 7, 2006 1:11:17 GMT -5
There are some things about me that amaze some people: - I am 17, turning 18 this year
- I have a girlfriend
- I am a virgin
Alot of these people cant seem to understand why I havent had sex with my girlfriend. I dont want to, and niether does she. Several people (mostly girls suprisingly) think that I should break up with her and find someone else, so I can sleep with her. I love my girlfriend, but I just dont feel the need for sexual contact in our relationship. I dont want to have sex. I dont even look at porn (I have a female friend who is shocked at the fact that she looks at more porn then I do ). I have no sex drive whatsoever. I even get embarrased talking about sex in general (imagine how I feel writing this) Am I normal for a 17 year old male? What is wrong with me? What can I do? Any comments would be appreciated. Soooo you don't want to have sex or your girlfriend doesn't which leaves you with no choice? Theres nothing wrong with being a virgin, your friends obviously are dirty dirty people who think the more people they *beep* the better they will look when actually they just look like a walking STD.
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Post by babe on May 19, 2006 17:01:26 GMT -5
I have lost my virginity to ma GF yes im bi people think that because i lost it to a girl im weird but really it's the same.....And i really do have too many sexual urges in ma mind at the moment.......I first descovered i was by when i got frunk and made out with a girl but i still had a HUGE crush on thsi lad !!!
Some people do make fun at me but i just walk on by
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Post by steve on May 19, 2006 18:26:58 GMT -5
How do you loose your vaginity to the same sex?
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Post by Emo Kid on May 19, 2006 18:53:25 GMT -5
How do you loose your vaginity to the same sex? uhh, by having sex with them
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Post by littlemikey on May 19, 2006 19:58:12 GMT -5
Thanks for the advice everyone, I am glad to know that I am not alone (Although you are a moderator and may be posting this for activity)...lol I made this thread before I became a mod
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Post by steve on May 19, 2006 20:58:27 GMT -5
But emo Kid I thought losing vaginity meant, to *beep* the oppisite sex. Does *beep*ign some dude in the ass mean u loose ya vaginity.. asnd how do lesbians have sex? what give each other head? I don't get ya.
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Post by Emo Kid on May 19, 2006 21:00:29 GMT -5
But emo Kid I thought losing vaginity meant, to f**k the oppisite sex. Does f**kign some dude in the ass mean u loose ya vaginity.. asnd how do lesbians have sex? what give each other head? I don't get ya. if you *beep* someone, you arent a virgin. so yes, a guy screwing a guy would make them no longer virgins. girls i think use dildos to *beep* each other. i dunno tho. i dont consider hand and blow jobs losing virginity tho
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Post by steve on May 19, 2006 21:05:04 GMT -5
hmm.. alwys just thought straihgt sex wa sonly way REALLY to loose ya viginity.
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Post by My_Arm's_Not_Tired on May 19, 2006 21:18:41 GMT -5
First off, it's spelled "virginity." Not "viginity" or "vaginity."
Secondly, sex is sex. Whether it is with the same gender or the opposite gender, it is still sex. Loosing your virginity only requires you to have sex of some sort, and according to Emo Kid, it can't be a hand job or a blow job.
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Post by Emo Kid on May 19, 2006 22:55:11 GMT -5
thats just my opinion
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