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Post by littlemikey on Mar 31, 2006 6:55:23 GMT -5
There are some things about me that amaze some people: - I am 17, turning 18 this year
- I have a girlfriend
- I am a virgin
Alot of these people cant seem to understand why I havent had sex with my girlfriend. I dont want to, and niether does she. Several people (mostly girls suprisingly) think that I should break up with her and find someone else, so I can sleep with her. I love my girlfriend, but I just dont feel the need for sexual contact in our relationship. I dont want to have sex. I dont even look at porn (I have a female friend who is shocked at the fact that she looks at more porn then I do ). I have no sex drive whatsoever. I even get embarrased talking about sex in general (imagine how I feel writing this) Am I normal for a 17 year old male? What is wrong with me? What can I do? Any comments would be appreciated.
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Post by moronicscarecrow on Mar 31, 2006 7:18:53 GMT -5
There's nothing wrong with you... I think being a virgin is a very good thing... and I would probably be the same as far as sex goes. People are just different.. thats all
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 31, 2006 7:24:17 GMT -5
Nothing is wrong with you at all. I know quite a few guys who are older then you and are still virgins. One has a girlfriend who doesn't like it and wants to have sex but he's yet to give in. Its good if your girlsfriend feels the same way. Theres nothing wrong with being a virgin. You should be proud that you are.
If you have no sex drive at all then maybe you should see a doctor about it. Its okay to be a viring but usually guys have some what of a want for it. Its normal for a guy to want it. Do you have any idea on why you don't have a sex drive? I think you should get it checked out.
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Post by Dregond [Gone] on Mar 31, 2006 7:53:43 GMT -5
yep yep, is the pumbling all functioning right ? again why does everything say sound nasty lolol
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Post by littlemikey on Mar 31, 2006 7:55:33 GMT -5
I dont know why I dont have a sex drive... I just think that sex is something that is very serious, like marrige itself, and just dont think about it. So you think I should see a doctor about it? hmm... alright, I will see.
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Post by Dregond [Gone] on Mar 31, 2006 8:45:33 GMT -5
well depends, do you get hardons ? its when you dont that it means something is up.
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Post by goochmonster on Mar 31, 2006 15:46:30 GMT -5
ya man if you have NOTHING going on then somethings wrong. It doesnt matter if you want to wait till your 90 or marrage there still has to be a sex drive or some sort. Whether its getting turned on or what.
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Post by littlemikey on Mar 31, 2006 18:33:34 GMT -5
well... I do get turned on occasionally.... But that still is very rarely
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Post by Italian Stallion on Apr 1, 2006 3:27:18 GMT -5
dont u get turned on everytime you see your gf or hold hands/cuddle?
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Apr 1, 2006 3:42:05 GMT -5
I've herd of being a virgin and stuff. But no sex drive? ??!?!?!
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Post by Andrew on Apr 1, 2006 7:15:16 GMT -5
It's fine to be a virgin. I'm one, but that might have something to do with my age. However, with this no sex drive thing, you might want to get that checked out. I've not actually heard of anybody not having a sex drive (unless you can't move).
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Post by littlemikey on Apr 1, 2006 7:43:55 GMT -5
dont u get turned on everytime you see your gf or hold hands/cuddle? I like a cuddle, but it isnt sexual for me
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Post by GrapeJuice on Apr 1, 2006 17:51:45 GMT -5
Its ok to be a virgin if your not ready to have sex don't. It is a very emotional bond that two people who care deeply for each other should share. Sex is not something that should be "tossed around". Many girls respect the type of guy you are. It will happens when it happens. I think you should still have a sex drive. Please get that checked out by your family doctor.
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Post by stars2mind on Apr 3, 2006 16:48:25 GMT -5
man.... dont worry thats how you are....like grapejuice (i like your name grapejuice lol) said many girls would appreciate a guy like you....when your ready your ready....so i think you have a very very low sex drive.....not to be putting you down or anything...thats just you though!!
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Post by littlemikey on Apr 3, 2006 19:22:19 GMT -5
Thankyou everyone. I will see what I can do...
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Post by biancasaur on Apr 8, 2006 23:06:16 GMT -5
To me, it doesn't sound like you have a physical problem that you should see a doctor about, but maybe a psychological issue with sex. You said you feel really embarrassed talking about it, and you used a icon when you said you got turned on sometimes. Were you raised to believe that sex (outside of marriage) is a shameful thing, or that it's wrong to get turned on?
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Post by littlemikey on Apr 8, 2006 23:10:38 GMT -5
I was raised to belive that sex outside was fine :/ I dont know what my problem with sexuality is. I just feel more like a child of 11 then 17 when talking about it.
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