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Post by goochmonster on Jul 16, 2006 0:38:46 GMT -5
i understand that ppl can be born gay and that its hard for them to realise that God can teach agenst that but it came out of sin and that sin came from the devil not God so those ppl can choose to live or not to live in sin its just that not sining is alot harder for them. If your strait you can choose whether 2 have a relationship or not. Even tho u cant pick who u fall in love with u can pick who you go out with. same with gay ppl, they cant choose whom they love but they can choose weither or not to follow that through, that dusnt mean you goin to become depressed because u cant follow your love through. I guess it may feel a bit like, ur not loved. but his friends wold be there for him and his family. My dad is a lutheran minister and his sister is gay. She wasnt disownd from th family. They still love her, but she followed her own path. That dusnt mean our family agree with it. Like, for example, a person desiding to take drugs, if the family fins out.. they're not goin to disown that person. They might not agree with it but that person has made his/her own choices. Im not saying that you can choose to be gay or not, i dnt thnk you can. But you can choose weither to act on it and if ppl stick there noses up wt you for being gay, they're not worth it. Have a lok at Romans 1:24-26 Couple things, first of all not all Christians are bible thumping, my shit don't stink people. I'm Christian, but at the same time I have an open mind about things. But, I have no problems with someone being gay. As long as you keep it in the confines of your home and don't rub it in my face. Thing is gay people expect all straight people to agree with how they live, and if they don't they are automatically considered "homophobic". That is simply ignorant and just plain ole stupid. I have talked to numerous gay people who think when men dress like women and stuff is just *beep*ed up. Those are the ones I can't tolerate. Men are suppose to be masculine, not totally overplay what a woman would act like cause most women don't act the way many gay people portray them. I don't beleive for a second that A)You go to hell for being gay, God is much more understanding than that. B)That you are born gay, you aren't born gay. Its a life choice you make. You let certain urges out more than others. Gay people need to accept straight people's opinions as they expect us to. And quite frankly, I think Gay Pride parades are just another way for gay people to rub it in straight peoples faces.
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 16, 2006 2:11:07 GMT -5
i understand that ppl can be born gay and that its hard for them to realise that God can teach agenst that but it came out of sin and that sin came from the devil not God so those ppl can choose to live or not to live in sin its just that not sining is alot harder for them. If your strait you can choose whether 2 have a relationship or not. Even tho u cant pick who u fall in love with u can pick who you go out with. same with gay ppl, they cant choose whom they love but they can choose weither or not to follow that through, that dusnt mean you goin to become depressed because u cant follow your love through. I guess it may feel a bit like, ur not loved. but his friends wold be there for him and his family. My dad is a lutheran minister and his sister is gay. She wasnt disownd from th family. They still love her, but she followed her own path. That dusnt mean our family agree with it. Like, for example, a person desiding to take drugs, if the family fins out.. they're not goin to disown that person. They might not agree with it but that person has made his/her own choices. Im not saying that you can choose to be gay or not, i dnt thnk you can. But you can choose weither to act on it and if ppl stick there noses up wt you for being gay, they're not worth it. Have a lok at Romans 1:24-26 Couple things, first of all not all Christians are bible thumping, my shit don't stink people. I'm Christian, but at the same time I have an open mind about things. But, I have no problems with someone being gay. As long as you keep it in the confines of your home and don't rub it in my face. Thing is gay people expect all straight people to agree with how they live, and if they don't they are automatically considered "homophobic". That is simply ignorant and just plain ole stupid. I have talked to numerous gay people who think when men dress like women and stuff is just f**ked up. Those are the ones I can't tolerate. Men are suppose to be masculine, not totally overplay what a woman would act like cause most women don't act the way many gay people portray them. I don't beleive for a second that A)You go to hell for being gay, God is much more understanding than that. B)That you are born gay, you aren't born gay. Its a life choice you make. You let certain urges out more than others. Gay people need to accept straight people's opinions as they expect us to. And quite frankly, I think Gay Pride parades are just another way for gay people to rub it in straight peoples faces. i agree with 2 things you said and 1 thing you said i disagree with. ok im gay, and it is not a choice, we are born gay but dont realize it till puberty ok? i agree, i hate girly gay ppl, i truely want them to get beat up and gay parades are extremely dumb, and is a way for them to shove it into ppl's faces. when i first heard of a gay parade, i was like, ok yea what *beep*ing freaks! lol
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Post by biancasaur on Jul 16, 2006 13:31:16 GMT -5
So, you don't care what gay people do in private as long as they don't "rub it in your face." But don't gay people get straight lifestyles "rubbed in their face" all the time? Heterosexual couples walk around holding hands, kissing, showing off pictures from their weddings, showing off their kids... how would you feel if a gay person told you "I don't mind what you do in private, but just don't rub it in my face?"
And what's wrong with gay pride parades? People need to feel that they are part of a community that supports them. Straight people already get that from the *entire world*, so what's wrong with gay people getting together and feeling accepted.
Plus, when men "dress up like women" or "act feminine", they're not trying to 'portray' women. They're just acting the way they want to act. Perhaps you naturally feel like you want to act "masculine," so you do. What if someone feels deep down inside that they're a very "feminine" person -- they should force themselves to act masculine just because you don't feel comfortable with their true personalities?
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 16, 2006 18:43:31 GMT -5
no, they should be allowed to do stuff in public, but why have a gay parade? theres no such things as straight parades
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Post by biancasaur on Jul 16, 2006 20:38:53 GMT -5
no, they should be allowed to do stuff in public, but why have a gay parade? theres no such things as straight parades Every day is Straight Pride day in most places. Think of all the couples you see in movies, on TV, on billboards. How many of them are heterosexual? Almost all. Sure, everyone notices when gay people have "pride" events, or when gay couples are on TV or in movies, but this is because we're so used to seeing *only* images of straight people.
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 16, 2006 20:40:30 GMT -5
no, they should be allowed to do stuff in public, but why have a gay parade? theres no such things as straight parades Every day is Straight Pride day in most places. Think of all the couples you see in movies, on TV, on billboards. How many of them are heterosexual? Almost all. Sure, everyone notices when gay people have "pride" events, or when gay couples are on TV or in movies, but this is because we're so used to seeing *only* images of straight people. this is true, i still think gay parades are dumb. waste of money and time
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Post by Gayness on Jul 16, 2006 23:37:09 GMT -5
You know why its straight people day everyday? Cause thats how life was intended to be. Prancing around in ridiculous costumes rubbing their gayness and lifestyle in straight peoples faces is wrong.
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 16, 2006 23:40:15 GMT -5
ridculous costumes is dumb correct, and if you mean rubbing it in straights faces like making out in public, or holding hands, or talking about how much you love your BF to straight ppl, that is not wrong cuz straights do that all the time.
but the dumb costumes and gay parades are stupid. i wouldnt call them wrong, but theyre stupid and ridiculous
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Post by Sexy on Jul 16, 2006 23:46:58 GMT -5
Ever heard the expression, God created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve? Sorry but in this society, right or wrong gay people have always been looked on as being a lifestyle. Cause thats exactly what it is, they give into different urges than straight people do. So for you to try and compare straight and gay is totally off base. There should NOT be gay parades and gay people should accept straight peoples opinions as much as they expect us to respect theirs. Sorry, thats just the way it is. Get use to it, its not changing anytime soon.
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 17, 2006 0:16:39 GMT -5
yea, you need to be banned gay isnt a choice, god is not real, there is not adam and eve, got it? there never was, get over it! imn gay, i think i would kno whether or not i chose to be gay, but i do think gay parades are stupid
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Post by goochmonster1 on Jul 17, 2006 0:48:47 GMT -5
Are you kidding me? I need to be banned because I have morals and decency? You are F-ed kid. I'll say it again since you seem to be a little slow, BEING GAY IS A LIFESTYLE, YOU ARE NOT BORN WITH IT. Deal with it buddy, it still seems you haven't. Quit making excuses as to why you couldn't make proper choices in your life. You have to live with them, nobody else does.
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 17, 2006 1:15:59 GMT -5
ok look, you just called gay ppl impropper, which is offensive and against the rules, and how the hell do u kno its not a choice. the answer is you dont kno. only real gay ppl kno. im gay and i can tell you right now, i did not choose to be gay
it is not a chosen lifestyle. youre just too ignorant to realize it. and since youre not gay and you wouldnt kno if its a choice or not, if you wanna find out, its called research!
and no, the fake ass bible is not a reference
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Post by Midnight on Jul 17, 2006 4:16:58 GMT -5
ok look, you just called gay ppl impropper, which is offensive and against the rules, and how the hell do u kno its not a choice. the answer is you dont kno. only real gay ppl kno. im gay and i can tell you right now, i did not choose to be gay it is not a chosen lifestyle. youre just too ignorant to realize it. and since youre not gay and you wouldnt kno if its a choice or not, if you wanna find out, its called research! and no, the fake ass bible is not a reference I agree! and i dont think people should be calling other people impropper or stupid becouse of what they choose and its not a mistake doing what you wanna do so just keep doing what youre doing no one is holding you back!
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 17, 2006 5:19:14 GMT -5
ok look, you just called gay ppl impropper, which is offensive and against the rules, and how the hell do u kno its not a choice. the answer is you dont kno. only real gay ppl kno. im gay and i can tell you right now, i did not choose to be gay it is not a chosen lifestyle. youre just too ignorant to realize it. and since youre not gay and you wouldnt kno if its a choice or not, if you wanna find out, its called research! and no, the fake ass bible is not a reference I agree! and i dont think people should be calling other people impropper or stupid becouse of what they choose and its not a mistake doing what you wanna do so just keep doing what youre doing no one is holding you back! thanks, you are correct, but you also used the term choose. i swear on my boyfriends life (that means im not lying) that gay ppl dont choose to be gay
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Post by dearblackgoodbye on Jul 17, 2006 19:31:10 GMT -5
If people could chose to be gay or straight, and they were tormented for being gay, why would they STAY gay?? If they could chose, they would switch to being straight, because no one likes to be tormented the way gays are tormented... the point is that it is NOT a choice, it's just what you're attracted to. Although I am straight, I agree with Emo Kid.
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 17, 2006 20:16:10 GMT -5
thanks
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Post by hedley on Jul 18, 2006 19:45:19 GMT -5
Emo, and aren't you breaking guidlelines by offending people by saying the Bible is crap and God's not real? Clean up yer own poop, you got many problems and I hope you get them worked out.
You chose to be gay, now live with it.
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