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Post by Family Guy on May 9, 2006 15:54:45 GMT -5
I think im going to tell one of my guy friends but I dont know what I should say really or when to say it. Any advice?
if u read my other thread "I think" then u will know waht im talking about.
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Post by Emo Kid on May 9, 2006 17:28:13 GMT -5
f**k NO DUDE! that IMO has to be the worst idea. do you have any rele close friends that are girls? if so, i suggest you tell a girl. theyre more accepting of it
a guy would harrass you for it, most likely
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Post by Andrew on May 9, 2006 18:34:54 GMT -5
Do with what you feel comfortable with. Only tell this guy friend of yours if you really think he'll be supportive.
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Post by biancasaur on May 9, 2006 23:23:59 GMT -5
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Post by Sparkle on May 10, 2006 0:48:51 GMT -5
What Emo Kid said isn't really true... I know some guys who've told other guys and apart from some mild teasing, they've kept the secret safe. It depends who it is. If you have a good guy friend that you trust, tell him... but be prepared for the consequences. As Biancasaur said
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Post by Emo Kid on May 10, 2006 0:54:51 GMT -5
if i were you, i wouldnt tell
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 10, 2006 18:07:02 GMT -5
We dont' know him so we dont know how he will react. How do you think he will react?
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Post by Family Guy on May 11, 2006 4:54:42 GMT -5
well to emokid i want to tell anyways um i think u took it the wrong way I want to tel him so I can be with him not just to come out.
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Post by Andrew on May 11, 2006 5:20:40 GMT -5
If you feel comfortable with telling him, then go for it. I wish you luck.
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Post by Family Guy on May 11, 2006 5:23:17 GMT -5
If you feel comfortable with telling him, then go for it. I wish you luck. ok but i dont know if i am comfortable because when people talk about it or make fun of other people in the locker room he is the one who is quite about it and doesnt join in with the bashing could this mean somethng? i was thinkin that maybe hes gay too or he just doesnt like o talk bad about people. I dunno cuz hes a shy guy so i think it might be okay but i dont know if ill be able to deal with rejection cuz its taking alot just to think about asking and like what do I say? Hey Im gay?
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Post by Emo Kid on May 11, 2006 9:15:13 GMT -5
o, you wanna tell so you can get with him eh? well, that makes sense.
just cuz he doesnt bully gays doesnt mean hes gay himself. i kno lots of guys that are straight and dont bully gays.
also, you gotta make damn sure hes gay. i dunno for a fact, but you prolly dont EVER wanna ask a straight guy out. BAD idea!
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Post by Family Guy on May 12, 2006 19:07:22 GMT -5
why? whats the worse he could say, no? i dunno i think im going to mention it to him at practice this weekend and see how it goes. i guess ill just put up with it if he does make fun of me or whatever. Im tierd of keeping it a secret thanks everyone.
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Post by Emo Kid on May 12, 2006 19:48:15 GMT -5
no, he could make fun of you. not saying he will, but he might.
also, maybe you should try to get him to talk about it a little and find out if he'll care. ask him what he'd do if one of his close friends was gay, but dont say you are.
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Post by Family Guy on May 15, 2006 3:49:54 GMT -5
i talked about it he seemed okay so I think i should.
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Post by Sparkle on May 15, 2006 11:37:34 GMT -5
Did yu ask him what he'd do if some one he knew was gay? What did he say?
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Post by biancasaur on May 16, 2006 18:29:58 GMT -5
It's true the guy could make fun of you, but you'll never know until you try. And it's better to take a risk and find out rather than just never trusting anyone enough to open up.
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