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Bi
May 30, 2006 8:52:57 GMT -5
Post by Xylaphonic on May 30, 2006 8:52:57 GMT -5
I am not sure about this, I think I might be bi, do most people at pubtery g through fazes of liking different sexes? I would never be able to tell anyone if I was bi, how can I be sure and is anyone here bi and how did they cope?
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Bi
May 30, 2006 17:58:37 GMT -5
Post by Rachel on May 30, 2006 17:58:37 GMT -5
It really depends. When your a teenager and going through puberty,there are a lot of chemical changes in the brain,and so a lot of people get feelings of what are thought to be attractions/sexual feelings towards people of the same sex. Its definately common,and absolutely normal. But if your not sure whether your bi or gay,then it might just be a puberty hormone thing?
Because gay teens are often 100% sure of who they are when there this age,usually. So if your saying you dont know whether your bi,your probably just confused about some feelings you've had.
But if your just getting these feelings in the next year or whatever,dont judge your sexuality until your at least 18-19+.
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Bi
May 30, 2006 18:12:47 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on May 30, 2006 18:12:47 GMT -5
It is perfectally normal to be confused about your sexuality when you are going through puberty, not every one does it, but more people do it then you think (they just dont admit it). The reason is that your body is experiencing hormones that it hasnt seen before, and you are getting something like a 'hormone overload'. It will settle down eventually, by the time you have finished puberty, and by the time you are around 18 or 19 you should be quite certian of your sexuality, whatever you belive that to be However, at the time being, dont make a definite choice, just experiment and see what you like
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Bi
May 30, 2006 18:21:04 GMT -5
Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 30, 2006 18:21:04 GMT -5
Yea its best to wait until your about 18 or 19 to judge your sexual preferences cuz your horomones are running wild and make you feel bi or gay when really your not they are just adjusting to your body so they are like moving around and makes it confusing for you. When I was 14-17 I though I was BI but when I turned 18 I realized I wasnt,
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Bi
May 31, 2006 15:15:08 GMT -5
Post by Xylaphonic on May 31, 2006 15:15:08 GMT -5
Cool, thanks guys, I suppose it's just a faze, mabye I was just being stupid, reading things about being bi makes you think about it to much!
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Bi
May 31, 2006 16:48:38 GMT -5
Post by Rachel on May 31, 2006 16:48:38 GMT -5
Yeah dont worry just yet. And even if you do realise your bisexual,it doesnt matter,because thats perfectly normal. I will admit,ive had thoughts of whether im bisexual,but i know im straight,because i could never see myself having any sexual relations with a girl,or been in an actual relationship with one. I just know that im straight.
You should ask yourself the same question,and see what answer you get. "Am i straight,or am i bisexual?" If you cant answer..thats still fine,just wait until your older before you judge.
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Bi
Jun 1, 2006 17:17:00 GMT -5
Post by Andrew on Jun 1, 2006 17:17:00 GMT -5
I agree with what everbody else said: it's perfectly normal. If indeed you are bi, it's nothing to worry about. You just get the better of both worlds.
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