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prude?
Jun 26, 2006 17:30:27 GMT -5
Post by blondiex33 on Jun 26, 2006 17:30:27 GMT -5
okay.. my boyfriend is kind of.. prude .. like hes never had a girlfriend before me and i was his first kiss and everything so he doesnt really show any interest in doing "more" .. like itsl ike hes scared or something.. and we makeout and stuff but thats it.. like sometimes he'll just playfully grab my ass and stuff like that and sometimes my boobs too but he never does anything more.. and i kind of want him to like with a couple past boyfriends we would make out and theyd like touch me n feel me up and stuff and i enjoyed it so how do i get him to kind of start doing stuff like that without actually telling him to ?
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prude?
Jun 26, 2006 19:54:11 GMT -5
Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on Jun 26, 2006 19:54:11 GMT -5
Sorry I never saw this before. So its your boyfriend that doesn't want to go farther? What would you like him to do? You can always ask him or talk to him about it. He's probably scared of messing it up or not knowing how to do it.
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prude?
Jun 26, 2006 19:58:48 GMT -5
Post by blondiex33 on Jun 26, 2006 19:58:48 GMT -5
yeaaa thats the thing though i dont really want to talk to him about it i just want to somehow give him the sign that i want to do more...... and i dont really even want to do much more yet i mean i just want him to be more "hands on"
the reason why he wont do anything more is because hes not experienced and im his first girlfriend and i was his first kiss too so i guess hes not really ready or he just doesnt know what to do because he probably doesnt know what i want to do either
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prude?
Jun 26, 2006 20:00:58 GMT -5
Post by , Anna, BO, Banna, on Jun 26, 2006 20:00:58 GMT -5
show him what to do and stuff u kind of have to teach him
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Jun 26, 2006 20:01:39 GMT -5
Post by , Anna, BO, Banna, on Jun 26, 2006 20:01:39 GMT -5
like guide his hands
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prude?
Jun 26, 2006 20:03:27 GMT -5
Post by Beautiful Disaster on Jun 26, 2006 20:03:27 GMT -5
The only way to get him to realize what you want is to tell him. Guys are dumb sometimes and don't pick up on hints. You pretty much have to put everything into lamens terms for them to comprehend. A good thing is was annabobanna mentioned which was to guide his hands, When your making out just put his hands where you want them. Once he feels comfertable he might do it on his own without your assistance.
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prude?
Jun 26, 2006 20:05:34 GMT -5
Post by blondiex33 on Jun 26, 2006 20:05:34 GMT -5
okayy thank you all !
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prude?
Jun 26, 2006 20:07:53 GMT -5
Post by , Anna, BO, Banna, on Jun 26, 2006 20:07:53 GMT -5
ur welcome
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prude?
Jun 26, 2006 20:14:47 GMT -5
Post by Beautiful Disaster on Jun 26, 2006 20:14:47 GMT -5
Hope it helped! You're welcome
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prude?
Jun 27, 2006 20:48:52 GMT -5
Post by Aviator on Jun 27, 2006 20:48:52 GMT -5
Its not so uch we're dumb as that some of us aren't sure whether certain hints mean anything...
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Jul 2, 2006 7:08:35 GMT -5
Post by littlemikey on Jul 2, 2006 7:08:35 GMT -5
Its not so uch we're dumb as that some of us aren't sure whether certain hints mean anything... Agreed And if a guy takes a hint the wrong way... it usually ends badly.
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Jul 5, 2006 18:20:15 GMT -5
Post by blondiex33 on Jul 5, 2006 18:20:15 GMT -5
yeah i know what you mean.. thanks
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Jul 9, 2006 3:49:14 GMT -5
Post by moronicscarecrow on Jul 9, 2006 3:49:14 GMT -5
You said he might not be ready? well in that case you shouldnt really make him do things...
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prude?
Jul 9, 2006 15:00:53 GMT -5
Post by biancasaur on Jul 9, 2006 15:00:53 GMT -5
I think you should talk to your boyfriend directly. It doesn't have to be un-sexy to ask him if he wants to do more. IT's fine to say something like "Do you want to touch me?" In fact, he would probably think that's very sexy. Also, it allows him to say "No" if he wants to.
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