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Post by dearblackgoodbye on Jul 10, 2006 1:28:23 GMT -5
Ok, so I've had sex a few times, and it hurt REALLY bad the first time (when my 'cherry' was popped). I felt like a knife was being jammed in me and I was about to cry, it was really painful... and the second and third time it hurt bad at the beginning, but once he got it in and we got going, it felt a little better. But even though my 'cherry' is popped and I don't really have those sharp pains anymore, when I have sex it feels like I have a stomach ache. It kind of feels like his penis is poking something deep inside of me, like it's jamming up against some skin or something, I hate the feeling... and I also kind of get a stomach ache, last time I felt like I was going to throw up. And it's not nerves, we are super comfortable around each other and I'm not self conscious about it at all, it just hurts and I don't like it. Any ideas?? Thanks!!
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Post by Emo Kid on Jul 10, 2006 1:40:16 GMT -5
as far as i kno, it hurts the girl when she has sex the first few times. i think its normal
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Post by dearblackgoodbye on Jul 10, 2006 2:53:25 GMT -5
But I've never heard of anyone feeling like they are going to throw up during sex... I don't know, it was weird, I was just trying to breathe steadily and wait until it was over because I didn't like the feeling.
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Post by WilD CherrY on Jul 10, 2006 3:17:51 GMT -5
Dont bare through the pain just for the hell of it. If it hurts DONT HAVE SEX until you can find out whats wrong. There is a thread about this somewhere.. I'll look up more information if you want.
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Post by littlemikey on Jul 10, 2006 8:24:17 GMT -5
I think that his penis may be hitting your clitoris. however, I think you should just tell him to go slower or gently or something like that, because from what I understand there is not much else that can be done to make that area less sensitive.
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Jul 10, 2006 17:44:13 GMT -5
I thought I was familiar with the female body but isn't the clitoris on the outside of the body?
It could be your cervix or bladder, Go see your doctor for sure!
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Post by littlemikey on Jul 10, 2006 20:45:50 GMT -5
I thought I was familiar with the female body but isn't the clitoris on the outside of the body? It could be your cervix or bladder, Go see your doctor for sure! My mistake, I ment the cervix
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Post by !Dances With Hamsters! on Jul 10, 2006 20:47:58 GMT -5
HAHAHAHAHA I was reading that and I was like Boy he must have bad aim then untill I scrolled down
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Post by dearblackgoodbye on Jul 10, 2006 22:55:58 GMT -5
^^LOL. Yeah, I was thinking that he might be hitting my cervix (his penis is quite... um... big, lol... and he was doing it really hard) but I'm not sure why I feel like throwing up when that happens... Thanks for the help!!
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Post by littlemikey on Jul 12, 2006 0:55:45 GMT -5
^^LOL. Yeah, I was thinking that he might be hitting my cervix (his penis is quite... um... big, lol... and he was doing it really hard) but I'm not sure why I feel like throwing up when that happens... Thanks for the help!! The sick feeling may just be the fact that your body hasn't experienced anything like that before. I know when I had my first sexual experience (even though I'm still a virgin) I felt quite sick for some reason. I still have no idea why, but I'm sure its nothing to worry about.
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Post by dearblackgoodbye on Jul 12, 2006 5:29:54 GMT -5
OK, cool. Thanks.
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Post by biancasaur on Jul 12, 2006 12:15:28 GMT -5
I agree it's probably that he's hitting your cervix. There are positions you can try that make pentration more shallow, which work well if the guy has a long penis. Try lying on your side and having him "spoon" you and enter you that way (you might have to scoot up/have him scoot down to get it to work).
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