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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 9, 2006 18:10:15 GMT -5
wow that was a really lame subject title sorry..
anyways I like this girl and she says she likes me but she doesnt want to have an actual relationship with me just a sexual relationship. I dont want that. But im afraid if I dont she will stop liking me and never want a relationship with me. Im hoping if we have a sexual relationship now she will want an actual relationship later...
what do you think I should do?
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Post by littlemikey on Aug 9, 2006 19:13:08 GMT -5
Hmm. I think that if she isnt interested in a real relationship, there isnt much point of just having a sexual relationship, you dont get the emmotional attachment that most people need.
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 9, 2006 19:24:29 GMT -5
but maybe it would make her want a relationship?
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Post by Ruby on Aug 9, 2006 20:35:38 GMT -5
don't give up your body for a relationship. If this person wanted a real relationship it probably wouldn't start like this. Short answer, sorry. Good luck!
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 10, 2006 0:23:22 GMT -5
but I really like her alot..
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Post by biancasaur on Aug 10, 2006 0:33:29 GMT -5
Don't get into a sexual relationship with her to try to win her over emotionally, if she's already told you that she doesn't want an actual relationship. This has the potential to hurt you and her very badly. If you want a sexual relationship only with her, I don't see any problem with it, but I don't know if that's the best choice in this situation -- it seems like you would only want more, while she might be content with sex only and it might really hurt your feelings.
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 10, 2006 1:18:43 GMT -5
ok. i guess i wont. im sure i'll find someone else sometime.
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Post by Sparkle on Aug 10, 2006 7:55:07 GMT -5
*hugs* I hope you're ok babes, but I do agree with what every one else said, and you're a wonderful caring person, and I'm sure you'll find some one else
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Post by littlemikey on Aug 10, 2006 17:57:41 GMT -5
Agreed ^_^
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 10, 2006 18:23:57 GMT -5
thanks. i dont know that ill ever find anyone else. i already had the perfect person for me(not this girl another girl) but I let her go...
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Post by biancasaur on Aug 10, 2006 20:59:24 GMT -5
I'm sorry you seem to be having a hard time with romance. Rest assured that there will be someone out there for you who's available for the type of relationship you want.... Good luck!
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Post by xbrokenxdreams on Aug 10, 2006 21:15:34 GMT -5
thanks. i hope your right.
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Post by martin on Aug 11, 2006 4:54:59 GMT -5
What do you want?
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