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Post by Caroline on Aug 30, 2006 18:45:20 GMT -5
Hello my name is Caroline and i have been dating this one guy for some time now. We do not have sex but I will play with him. We've been dating so long that I feel that I can trust him not to brag and talk and touch me or force me. He has touched me but I told him no and he hasn't touched me agien.
Now to the point. He mentioned wanting to do Anal sex and I didn't know what to say. I told him I will think about it. I asked my girl friend if she would try it with me first. She agreed. I asked my sister to Order a strap on so I can try it with my friend. She did and I have it of course.
My question I'm trying to ask is what are the risks of having anal sex and how deep is to deep?
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Post by Ruby on Aug 30, 2006 19:16:39 GMT -5
Well, I'm sorry I can't really answer your questions but I would assume that if you went too far in it could damage something....It's awesome that your boyfriend respects you!
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Post by Caroline on Aug 30, 2006 19:21:47 GMT -5
It is Thats why I love him. He has my full trust But I rather have my girl friend do it to me first because I've heard how guys are when they get "In the mood" And I don't want to quit in the middle of it and he be in that mood. Thats why I'm having her do it) . . But thanks anyway. And what are some other risks and what are some other stuff I should do to pre pair??
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Post by stars2mind on Aug 30, 2006 19:35:26 GMT -5
lots of lube and be safe your gonna hear that alot....
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Post by Caroline on Aug 30, 2006 19:38:18 GMT -5
lots of lube and be safe your gonna hear that alot.... Be safe how and what can I do and lube?
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Post by Ruby on Aug 30, 2006 19:45:55 GMT -5
Yes, Stars has a point.....lots of lube is a very good idea..
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Post by Caroline on Aug 30, 2006 19:49:28 GMT -5
Yes, Stars has a point.....lots of lube is a very good idea.. Lube? or greese you put on machines?
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Post by stars2mind on Aug 30, 2006 19:56:38 GMT -5
no they have special lube you can buy for that greese no...lol
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Post by Caroline on Aug 30, 2006 19:57:46 GMT -5
no they have special lube you can buy for that greese no...lol Where can I buy some?
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Post by stars2mind on Aug 30, 2006 20:08:17 GMT -5
you can buy them at online or at your local drug stores [note: they may not sell them at all your local drug stores]
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Post by Caroline on Aug 30, 2006 20:10:09 GMT -5
you can buy them at online or at your local drug stores [note: they may not sell them at all your local drug stores]
thanks..... I pmed you because I want to talk to you personaly but I want to keep this open to find out how deep is to deep
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Post by Ruby on Aug 30, 2006 22:48:57 GMT -5
Yay she joined! Welcome Caroline!
Back on topic: Perhaps there is instructions on the strap on you bought? Or some sort of caution that would tell you how deep too deep is.
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Post by Sparkle on Aug 31, 2006 4:15:40 GMT -5
Hello Well.... you need to use a condom, obviously, because although it's not likely to get pregnant like this (although it has been heard of) you can still get STI's and STD's. Buy a suitable lubricant, make sure it's safe to use with condoms... some rub off the spermicide making it not so safe. Before you do it, I recomend you have a warm bath and relax your muscles, as if you are tense you are more likely to damage tissue walls along the sides. This is also the reason you need lots of lube.... to minimise the ripping of tissue. It's best to start slowly when you get to the actual thing... in anal sex there's a small line between pleasure and pain, and if you break that line it won't be enjoyable. Also, when you do it with your guy friend, a butt plug or stimulator could be used on him to make it more enjoyable for him. Hope this has helped, feel free to pm me with any more questions!
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Post by Ruby on Aug 31, 2006 12:44:46 GMT -5
Sparkle the expert
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Post by Sparkle on Aug 31, 2006 14:45:22 GMT -5
Correction. Sparkle the google expert with no experiance so no one get the wrong idea lol
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Post by Caroline on Aug 31, 2006 17:33:16 GMT -5
Hello Well.... you need to use a condom, obviously, because although it's not likely to get pregnant like this (although it has been heard of) you can still get STI's and STD's. Buy a suitable lubricant, make sure it's safe to use with condoms... some rub off the spermicide making it not so safe. Before you do it, I recomend you have a warm bath and relax your muscles, as if you are tense you are more likely to damage tissue walls along the sides. This is also the reason you need lots of lube.... to minimise the ripping of tissue. It's best to start slowly when you get to the actual thing... in anal sex there's a small line between pleasure and pain, and if you break that line it won't be enjoyable. Also, when you do it with your guy friend, a butt plug or stimulator could be used on him to make it more enjoyable for him. Hope this has helped, feel free to pm me with any more questions! Why would the butt plug make it enjoyable for him?
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Post by Sparkle on Sept 1, 2006 3:21:51 GMT -5
Hm... how to say it politley lol... So he can have things up his ass as well. Guys... even straight ones... enjoy it a lot of the time lol.
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