tylerh91
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Post by tylerh91 on Oct 26, 2006 19:10:41 GMT -5
Can anybody tell me what is up with straight guys being PERFECTLY fine with girls who are lesbians and bisexual, but if a guys gay or bi, they go all homophobic.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying ALL straight guys are like this, but a lot of them are. And I know that they think girl-on-girl actions hot, but if your gonna be homophobic towards gay and bi men, should you also be towards women?¿?¿?
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Post by biancasaur on Oct 26, 2006 23:43:30 GMT -5
I agree, I've seen that attitude before and I think it's quite ridiculous. I've heard guys say that it's okay for girls because they're "both hot," but that with guys it's "just gross and unnatural." I think that's so silly!
Let me go on a feminist rant for a minute. I think the reason that some guys like imagining two girls together and yet disdain gay men and women who actually live as lesbians.... is because the girls in the fantasies/porn aren't really having sex for their own pleasure -- it's more that they're having sex FOR the guys who are watching, to arouse them. That's the main point of "straight" porn that depicts woman-on-woman sex.
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Post by GrapeJuice on Oct 27, 2006 3:41:23 GMT -5
Its just a double standard which is totally outrageous! I think straight men would look at gay men as in a homophobe way because they are the same sex as them where as females are not so they find it more attractive. I don't know but its stupid to have these types or double standards when its all the same thing pretty much.
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Post by Will on Oct 28, 2006 2:59:53 GMT -5
Typical male answer = "because omg their lyk so hawt lol!" My answer: Well. I don't know if this is bred into males because of genetics, or the media advertising that lesbianism (is that a word?) is ok and totally fine. But I guess most males do consider lesbians making out, well, hot. Possibly because, as biancasaur said, males probably envision the females having sex with each other, thinking about males. So it's basically sex without the interjection of another male in the fantasy (which can make some guys really insecure). For example, lesbian porn sells to guys because it's sex, but without omg a penis!!!1!one, which can make some guys insecure omg it's bigger than mine!!!1eleven!. Besides, this kind of porn is fake, staged anyway. I'd rather see two girls making out, than, say, two guys (eep!) or a guy and a girl (grrr). Unless, y'know, it was me. Then I'd be like, "Why is there a guy that looks like me making out with someone?" Then I'd be like "omg parallel universes!". Then I'd be like, *brain asplode*.
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Post by biancasaur on Oct 29, 2006 21:00:25 GMT -5
So it's basically sex without the interjection of another male in the fantasy (which can make some guys really insecure). For example, lesbian porn sells to guys because it's sex, but without omg a penis!!!1!one, which can make some guys insecure omg it's bigger than mine!!!1eleven!. That's a really good point... Then I'd be like, "Why is there a guy that looks like me making out with someone?" Then I'd be like "omg parallel universes!". Then I'd be like, *brain asplode*. LOL!!
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Oct 29, 2006 21:07:08 GMT -5
I agree with everything.
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