Brit.
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Post by Brit. on Nov 1, 2006 0:41:02 GMT -5
Ok. Tonight, I talked to my best friend, Matt. I told him that I realized I am bisexual. I also told him how I had strong feelings for him. He told me he was gay. I am not mad, but dissapointed a little bit. I am sad that he will never like me like that and that my feelings don't really matter. I am just having trouble dealing with it. It's hard, and I love him to death and I do not hate him and I am not angry with him. I just need help on how to deal with it. Because when he told me, I felt crushed . But i know it's not his fault. He feels what he feels and I respect that. Thanks =)
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Marzon
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Post by Marzon on Nov 1, 2006 19:55:11 GMT -5
Just don't think about it as much, you're still friends, have fun and do friend things. Who knows, if he wasn't and you two would break up, there will be no friends.. at least it would seem there wouldn't. Don't worry too much, have fun.
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Brit.
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Post by Brit. on Nov 2, 2006 7:05:47 GMT -5
It's probably one of the most difficult things I've had to deal with. I think he told me so flat out that I didn't know how to take it in and process it. He called last night and he asked if I was ok, because I wasn't myself really. I feel bad, and so does he. He keeps wishing he wasn't this way and apologizing. I tell him not to, because it's not his fault. It's the way he is and I'll still love him to death. He's afraid I might hurt myself over it; being an ex-cutter. Well thanks again, hopefully this time I can stay for awhile =)
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Post by Marzon on Nov 2, 2006 18:43:32 GMT -5
Look at it this way, you'll still have that friend if you ever need something.
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Post by biancasaur on Nov 5, 2006 18:47:08 GMT -5
It must be really hard to have a crush on someone who's not going to return those feelings. I'm sorry. But I think it's really cool that you acknowledge that it's not his fault and that you're still friends. You're more mature than some people, who would get angry and stop talking to him altogether. I don't know that there's anything you can do to get over it quickly... it might take some time. Writing down all your feelings can help, though.
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