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Post by Emo Kid on Nov 21, 2006 21:59:39 GMT -5
that if a guy never jacks off, then the first time theyre with a girl and are about to have sex a big load of sperm will just shoot out. is that true?
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Post by biancasaur on Nov 21, 2006 22:43:53 GMT -5
That's not true for every guy. But if a guy has never masturbated and he starts experiencing a lot of sexual pleasure, yes, he might orgasm before intercourse starts. Then again, not all guys who don't masturbate are going to "prematurely" ejaculate. It just depends on the guy.
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Post by Emo Kid on Nov 22, 2006 10:11:13 GMT -5
but would it really shoot out all of a sudden [like a big ammount] like my friends say?
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Post by Will on Nov 23, 2006 5:08:24 GMT -5
No. You're thinking of, like, if a guy doesn't 'let it out' it will build up. This isn't true. The sperm will grow in three weeks, and die soon after being fully grown. Excess doesn't happen because extra sperm simply gets absorbed back into the body. Plus, some guys have wet dreams and let it out there. It's true that a guy who's never done this before will get overly excited and blow his load really quickly, but there's not like a huge amount that comes out. It's logical!
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Post by littlemikey on Nov 23, 2006 6:32:53 GMT -5
I dont masterbate... and I havent ever been aroused enough to 'blow my load' so I guess we shall just wait and see.
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Post by Will on Nov 26, 2006 7:02:25 GMT -5
Semi construction?
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Post by Sparkle on Nov 26, 2006 15:40:31 GMT -5
I may be just nieve, but I htought most of the time you're with a girl, you're doing other stuff like tossing off before sex, as a kinda midway thing.... I dunno... *shrugs*
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Post by biancasaur on Nov 27, 2006 4:12:31 GMT -5
Yeah, I always thought that too Sparkle... I think a lot of people have intercourse before they've done anything else, though -- like, the first time you ever see the other person naked is the first time you have sex. I think it's better to do it gradually, especially since you'll be way less nervous.
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Post by Will on Nov 27, 2006 5:25:58 GMT -5
Unfortunately (or fortunately, however you want to see it) in our society sex = good and everyone needs to have sex. So sex is the first thing that happens.
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Post by Sparkle on Nov 29, 2006 1:41:42 GMT -5
Well, with me, and certainly all my friends, we ease into it.... I remember the first time me and my boyfriend done stuff we were both so nervous and it was a disaster! If we were having sex... *Shudders* How embarrasing! I guess it just chanfes with different people.
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Post by Will on Dec 1, 2006 8:50:29 GMT -5
In summary: No, this doesn't happen.
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Post by effinbois on Jan 25, 2007 5:50:05 GMT -5
with sex stuff, like i was with a boi for 5 months and we only did handjobs and finger... then i was with a guy for like a week, and we slept together... i think it realli depends on the person yew are with, your emotions at the time and every other little thing..
gotta say sex isnt the big milestone everyone believes it is...
trusting someone with yourself, physically and emotionally is... whether it happens during sex, handjobs, hugging, or whatever...
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