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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 4, 2006 20:58:40 GMT -5
I have a problem. So where is the best place to turn? To the wonderful members here. So here is my prob, My friend moved down to California for school about a year ago so we keep in contact on MSN and talked allllll the time. Well 2 weeks ago I realized he wasn't on lately. Then my friend was over and she signed on and he was online on her account but not mine. (He blocked me obviously) So I sent a message to him on Myspace and just asked why he blocked me. A few days later when I signed on I noticed her was online and I asked him why. He told me that he had started talking to a girl he knew from 10th grade and they hit it of. In my head I was thinking like okay whats that have to do with it but anyways. Then he said he blocked EVERYONE but her because he only wanted to talk to her. I don't know If I should forgive him or not though. He said sorry and that it was stupid but, would a real friend do that just because they hit it off with someone from grade 10? Lastnight he asked me if I wanted to talk to him and I said not really. He went offline and then I got a e-mail from him that was a song. I don't know why he sent it but okay. So should I forgive him? I've only said no more then 10 words to him since he unblocked me.
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Post by littlemikey on Apr 4, 2006 21:01:20 GMT -5
well, I think you should forgive him, he hasnt really done anything to hurt you?
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 4, 2006 21:03:25 GMT -5
It hurt when he blocked me
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Post by Dregond [Gone] on Apr 4, 2006 21:03:46 GMT -5
like i sed, let him suffer for a while..then talk to him
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Post by allianne on Apr 4, 2006 21:06:11 GMT -5
lol aaaw well he hasn't done anything too bad...let him apologize, but I wouldn't make a huge deal over it. You let him know you were upset and that's about all there is to it.
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 4, 2006 21:08:15 GMT -5
yeah I've just kind of ignored it..
I don't understand why he would block me just because he hit it off with a girl?!?!
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Post by Dregond [Gone] on Apr 4, 2006 21:11:26 GMT -5
guys are weird....grils even more...she probbly made him..or he decided to show his dedication by deleteing all the grils..who knows
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Post by allianne on Apr 4, 2006 21:14:54 GMT -5
Well he blocked everyone tho, right? When my dad comes online I block everyone so I can talk to him without everyone else bothering me. Kinda the same I guess...? Well, next time he apologizes or talks to you then you could ask him. I have no idea what was going on in his head. lol He probably didn't want you to take it personally. But if you're good friends then I don't see why he would...your guess is probably as good as mine...actually your guess is probably better, but yeah..
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Post by stars2mind on Apr 4, 2006 23:38:09 GMT -5
that is hard, cause how do you know he blocked everyone? thats what he says right! or maybe he didnt want to let you know that the girl he likes hes stuck on...like what i mean is he probably doenst want to let you know that the girl has control of him, cause probably youll tell him shes not good for him, and maybe he likes her alot...that happens alot...to friends
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 5, 2006 0:50:42 GMT -5
Yeah if he was trying to show his dedication STILL would a real friend block someone he's known since we were 11 yrs old for some chick he knew in grade 10 that I guess he just randomly found on the net? They just started talking a couple weeks ago, Plus shes in Toronoto and he's in Cali (moving to Toronto this year) but still. Is it really hard for him to talk to two people? or atleast tell me whats going on instead of just blindly blocking me one day and keeping me blocked for a week or more? He wouldn't of even unblocked me if I didn't message him. And I don't know whats up with this song he sent me. Its something about "loving you" This is the lyrics to the song and I don't understand. It's not like we had a 'thing' going on. www.lyricsdownload.com/moony-dove-lyrics.htmlIm just confused and now that you say that stars2mind. He didn't have my friend blocked because thats how I found out so thats not everyone. I did ask him why and such as I said before he just said It was stupid I'm sorry. Nothing else. I guess Im just making a big deal about it because he is suppose to be a very very good friend.
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Post by Sparkle on Apr 5, 2006 3:51:56 GMT -5
I don't know what to say. The lyrics are very strange and I can't get my head around them. All I can say is maybe you should call him, as a surprie, andjust have a real long talk. It's more personal then MSN, and you'd be able to hear what he was really feeling in the expression in his voice. Actually.. how expensive is it to call that for away lol. I don't know any thing about call rates in America. But yeah- just try and talk to him, maybe just leave it behind you, ask him about the lyrics if they're bugging you. I dunno. And if you are such good friends, maybe you should forgive him, even if you don't understand it. Keep safe, Charlie XO
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Post by Dregond [Gone] on Apr 5, 2006 5:03:05 GMT -5
he could have picked better lyriccs
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Apr 6, 2006 0:32:09 GMT -5
Yeah the song is really throwing me off lol. I would call him but it costs way too much. I guess I'll just let it be and when I feel like talking to him I will I guess but I think hes blocked me again so w/e Im not going to bother.
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Post by stars2mind on Apr 6, 2006 23:18:30 GMT -5
i have two understandings of these lyrics.. 1..is that its about the girl...and two.. that he likes you and he wants you back in his life..like you were back then (you know)... he knows that you have a boyfriend..he wishes you never met.. because he knows you love him and that you wont leave him..he wants to be happy but to be happy he wants you...( well thats just my opinion of it and yeah it might be wrong... but thats up to you to find out) i think he blocked you because he loves you and it hurts him that he cant have you...and when he talks to you his feelings progress and rages for you...and he wants those feelings to stop because he thinks or knows that itll never happen...and he's gonna get hurt to find out that you dont like him....(< to me that explains why he blocked you....so yeah thats what i say! oh yeah and im leaning more towards point two ^^
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Post by vy on Apr 20, 2006 11:14:14 GMT -5
Wow,
What an amazing, and creative imagination you have stars2mind. If only life were like the movies eh?
The lyrics are very odd. Not sure what is meant, the best way is to ask him - but be careful, you might just be setting yourself up for more excuses.
Well, Babycakes, forgive him or not - there is no good or bad choice. You NEVER have to forgive someone, only do it if you WANT to - you are entitled to your feelings. So can't tell you if you should forgive him or not, but "just let it be" sounds like a good plan.
Hope it works out well for you, Babycakes. Good luck. ;D
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