Eryn
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Post by Eryn on May 1, 2006 22:21:56 GMT -5
Okay, so I'm a junior at my high school and there's this adorable freshmen I've seen. One of my friends knows him and told me a lot about him and he seems like a perfect guy for me. I'm having a little trouble introducing myself though. What do you think I should do? He likes a lot of the same music as me and has this AC/DC sweatshirt he wears almost everyday. I also have an AC/DC jacket, think that could help? I just don't wanna come off as this concited upper class chick that gets everything she wants (I don't). But I went out with a freshmen last year after I broke up with this 18 year old and him and I were both intimidated by each other. Not a smart move. Give yourself time to get over people. Crap, now I'm off topic! Anyway, what do you girls/guys think I should do?
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Post by ♥ Victoria ♥ on May 1, 2006 22:35:17 GMT -5
Does he know you?
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Post by GrapeJuice on May 1, 2006 22:43:08 GMT -5
Hey Eryn,
Well you're pretty lucky- You both have something in common so you have a good starting point. Have you ever thought about complimenting him on his sweater? or ask him what his favorite song is from AC/DC? If it was me I would respond with something like "Yeah I like that song, I also like " Fill in the blank" this part " Fill in the blank" was soo cool/good/wicked/awesome."
By not just saying "Oh yeah thats a good song" You have something more to go off of in a conversation. Just agreeing can put an end to a conversation pretty quickly. I think talking about something you have in commen with him will be the best place to start. Good Luck.
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on May 1, 2006 23:14:07 GMT -5
maybe since your friend knows him you can be there when she is talking to him and then you can start to talk to him also then she can pretend to have to go do something, leaving you there to talk to him
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on May 1, 2006 23:52:29 GMT -5
Why do you think he thinks u might be a concited upper class chick that gets everything she wants? If you know your going to talk to him one day try and wear your jacket or have it with you so he sees you like ac/dc.
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Post by DrPhil on May 2, 2006 3:50:16 GMT -5
"Accidently" ddrop something while walking by him and if he doesn't go to pick it up hes not worth it but if he does then start some small talk. if you havent already maybe smile at him everytime you see him or have him catch you sorta staring at you and then smile and look away.
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 3, 2006 0:57:34 GMT -5
So what do you think your going to do?
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Post by vy on May 3, 2006 22:09:34 GMT -5
Dear Eryn:
Well,
1.) I'm glad to hear that you understand that it is better to give yourself time to get over a break up.
2.) Seems like the perfect guy eh? I'm guessing, maybe that might be the reason it is so nerve racking to talk to him. Breathe. He is just like any other human being - and no this is not the movies, so there is no perfect way to approach this. So don't worry about what you have to say or do.
3.) I suggest be yourself, and get to know him. I suggest starting with what you already know (AC/DC maybe?).
Good Luck.
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on May 5, 2006 0:29:37 GMT -5
I wonder if she talked to him yet
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