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Post by lisa09 on Jun 16, 2006 1:50:01 GMT -5
hits me.. and i really like him..and im used to it by now.. im in 9th grade(about to be 10) and ive known him since 6{he was in 8..hes now about to be a senior...at a diff. school} and were really close friends.. and weve been through everything together..we done hide everything... except none of my friends no that i no him..or even who he is.. we dated for a little while and i mean...
he only hits me cause hes bipolar.. but i dont want him to hit me.. and i dont really no if he is.. thats probably the only lie hes ever told me
but i dont want to lose him
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Jun 16, 2006 1:55:32 GMT -5
Being Bi-polar is no excuse to hit anyone, why do you think he is lying about being bi-polar?
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Post by amy p on Jun 16, 2006 4:09:50 GMT -5
hav ya asked him to stop or anything/
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on Jun 16, 2006 6:01:35 GMT -5
he needs more help then you can probably offer, if he is bi-polar and the docs know chances r he's on medication. If not he should be. You could be in danger you never know what he could do if he is bi-polar and talking to him in private is something you should not do. be in a public place.
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Post by GrapeJuice on Jun 16, 2006 6:19:58 GMT -5
I used to have a bipolar friend, he snapped one day and is no longer with us. I think if he is bi-polar he should seek professional help if he hasn't already. You can be putting yourself in danger, don't let him hit you, you don't deserve to be hit so don't accept it.
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Post by Family Guy on Jun 16, 2006 13:52:26 GMT -5
why dont ur friend kno u kno him?
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Post by allianne on Jun 17, 2006 14:17:03 GMT -5
Your friend needs to see a doctor if he's bi-polar. They have medicines or there is therapy that can be taken. IF he's bipolar the doctor should be working with him to find a solution to control his emotions. It shouldn't be ignored and can be a very serious problem.
If he's not bi-polar then he still obviously has some issues, like anger management or something. Either way, this is abuse now that he's hitting you. I wouldn't go anywhere private with him. Could you talk to your mom or something about it? Telling him to see a doctor might just make him hurt you again. I understand you're close to him and don't just want to leave him. But if he won't see a doctor and he's bi-polar, his emotions won't be under check and he'd be likely to hurt you worse sometime..it's dangerous. If he won't do anything about it, then I don't suggest hanging out with him anymore.
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Post by Alcohol4ever on Jun 17, 2006 19:11:12 GMT -5
i agree ^^^^^^
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Post by lisa09 on Jun 18, 2006 14:53:57 GMT -5
why dont ur friend kno u kno him? because me and him hang out with different people..and we've just never crossed in front of my other friends and i just try and not talk about him
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Post by lisa09 on Jun 18, 2006 14:55:00 GMT -5
Your friend needs to see a doctor if he's bi-polar. They have medicines or there is therapy that can be taken. IF he's bipolar the doctor should be working with him to find a solution to control his emotions. It shouldn't be ignored and can be a very serious problem. If he's not bi-polar then he still obviously has some issues, like anger management or something. Either way, this is abuse now that he's hitting you. I wouldn't go anywhere private with him. Could you talk to your mom or something about it? Telling him to see a doctor might just make him hurt you again. I understand you're close to him and don't just want to leave him. But if he won't see a doctor and he's bi-polar, his emotions won't be under check and he'd be likely to hurt you worse sometime..it's dangerous. If he won't do anything about it, then I don't suggest hanging out with him anymore. yeah.. i would go to someone... but i dont really have anyone but him..
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on Jun 18, 2006 15:59:27 GMT -5
I dont get it, does he hit you like so it hurt or play hitting? If it bothers you then not having him around is better then being physically abused by him.
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Post by lisa09 on Jun 19, 2006 1:10:15 GMT -5
I dont get it, does he hit you like so it hurt or play hitting? If it bothers you then not having him around is better then being physically abused by him. its def. physically hurting, but i dont no what i would do without him
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Post by allianne on Jun 19, 2006 20:35:54 GMT -5
Okay, so you don't wanna NOT hang around with him because you guys have been close for a long time. But people change, people go through problems, and if you're a real friend then you won't just let this continue. Is it possible to talk to his parents when he's not around? Ask them if he's even seen a doctor, tell them he's told you he's bi-polar, and please tell about the hitting. They'll probably take you more seriously and your friend needs help. So be a good friend and tell someone. Stop hanging out with him as much or at least stop being alone until you do something, or things could get much worse.
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Jun 21, 2006 5:46:09 GMT -5
Agreed, Bi-polar people are unpredictable. I had a friend who was bi-polar, One day he was on top of the world. That night he commited suicide and almost killed his girlfriend also so please be careful if he is really bi-polar. As a good friend you should tell someone like his parents as Allianne suggested. If anything only hang out with him in public. Your not suppose to just "get used to" someone hitting you. Physically touching anyone in the means to harm them is unacceptable.
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Post by Southern_Cowgirl on Jun 21, 2006 20:46:33 GMT -5
My mother is bi-polar and they do get mood swings but that has nothing to do with him hitting you..... Even if bi-polar people are on med. it doesn't change their mood swings and i should know.... but bi-polar is a disorder that is unpredictable in their moods... but like i said just because he is bi-polar doesn't mean he has the right to hit you because being bi-polar doesn't cause him to hit you and it may be his mood swings but i highly doubt that because i have dealt with a bi-polar person almost all my life... and most bi-polar people hurt themselves rather than someone that has been their friend for that long
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Post by Firey Shades Of Blue on Jun 22, 2006 3:50:35 GMT -5
Not a real friend in my opnion. Bi-polar people can control there actions sometimes but sometimes it happens so fast for them they don't realize what they did until after the fact. Is he angry when he does this?
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Post by lisa09 on Jun 23, 2006 13:39:27 GMT -5
k thanks guys.. ill try to talk to his parents.. but hes almost 18, and hes about to move out, and his parents arnt really that great anyways... but ill see what i can do.. just private message me if you want updatees
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