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Post by Sparkle on May 8, 2006 0:55:45 GMT -5
Who am I? How do I find out what the real me is like? I don't know who I am Every things so wrong I want to be myself, but I don't know who am to be myself I am a mix of other people I need to be myself to find out what type of person I am like Help me
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Post by Beautiful Disaster on May 8, 2006 0:58:51 GMT -5
Well what exactally do you mean Im a lil confused What are you likes and dislikes - yours not your friends
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Post by Sparkle on May 8, 2006 11:59:27 GMT -5
I don't know... thats the thing.
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Post by vy on May 8, 2006 13:21:56 GMT -5
Dear Sparkle:
I understand what you mean, that feeling of who am I? What is ... and etc. All these questions start to take form and shape, yet there is no answer.
It is natural for you not to know, so don't worry too much. We, as humans are neat, because we are always changing, yet are never exactly the same as another. Who you are right now is the real you, even if you don't have any idea what that is.
You might not know what you like or dislike, but that doesn't mean you're not being yourself. It just means you don't know what you like or dislike - that will come with time and experience, so don't over think it. You will learn what you like and dislike with every new experience and with time.
Good Luck. ^_^
(P.S. Everyone goes through this, maybe at different times in their life, but we all have unanswered questions.)
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Post by Sparkle on May 8, 2006 14:07:09 GMT -5
Yeah.. but I don't think this is the real me. The thing I am now is a clone of my friends, a shadow of me. And I want to find the real me and don't know how.
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Post by xoxtomoxox on May 8, 2006 18:21:37 GMT -5
to find your true self you have 2 go looking,you have 2 take chances experience things test your self ask questions become strong and learn lessons you will then make your self who you are on the lessons you have learned "building character!" so don't stress if you feel your not saying what you want or acting different just let it go and go with the flow say what you wish and act the way you feel happy then your being yourself! good luck huni xx
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Post by Italian Stallion on May 10, 2006 0:37:13 GMT -5
Yeah.. but I don't think this is the real me. The thing I am now is a clone of my friends, a shadow of me. And I want to find the real me and don't know how. i dunno what you can do sorry Sparkle I wish i could help you
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Post by Sparkle on May 10, 2006 0:38:24 GMT -5
Meh. Thanks any way.
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Post by Dregond [Gone] on May 10, 2006 4:45:22 GMT -5
Sparkle , pm me when your free....
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 13, 2006 15:23:58 GMT -5
I think you could maybe go through everything that you do and think if you do them because your friends do or because you want to do them and same goes for things that you like do yo ulike them because of your friends or do you like it. Then replace it with things that you feel you like to do.
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Post by Sparkle on May 14, 2006 14:22:55 GMT -5
Thats a good idea. But once I found out, I couldn't just stop. Become a different person overnight. People would talk, I'd mess my own head up.. should I carry on living like this?
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Post by MuHa Feel the Wrath on May 14, 2006 16:07:14 GMT -5
Ya don't have to change over night just over time. be who u wanna be. take small steps everyday.
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Post by Sparkle on May 15, 2006 0:29:13 GMT -5
Ok.. I suppose I can try that. Ta every one!
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