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Post by Rachel on Apr 24, 2006 11:49:18 GMT -5
Thanks everyone
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Post by -‰KillerStyle‰- on May 4, 2006 15:23:39 GMT -5
Thanks everyone Do you still talk to her?
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Post by Rachel on May 5, 2006 13:34:58 GMT -5
Well i unblocked her,and she apologised. Shes not making me feel bad about things,or saying 'im going to hurt myself if you dont answer'
We just talk
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Post by *PreciousPrincess* on Oct 9, 2006 15:50:43 GMT -5
I know this may sound mean but I've been in the same situation. IGNORE THEM. It is difficult cause you want to be there for them and stop them hurting themselves. Talk to her about other things, avoiding the subject of death. my friend cut herself (once on webcam in front of me, not pleasant.) She kept going on about killing herself, saying the same things your friend did. I asked my mum what to do. She said this: (or something along these lines) Tell her you can't talk to her for a while because her talk of killing herself is hurting you. You understand the pain she must be going through, but can't she see she is hurting you aswell.Then don't talk to her for a while. It helps if you just don't go on msn for a while then you have the excuse, I was grounded etc. My friend stopped talking about it after a while. Now she is a happy girl (mostly) She has 3 horses she loves and a family who care for her. before I ignored her I asked her to think of how she would feel leaving her horses and how upset she would make us all. We aren;t as close as we were as I always thought she was being stupid. She had so much and was so ungrateful. At that time I was being bullied by over 100 people in my school. I was constantly being spat at, having my hair pulled etc. It was horrible. Plus my cat had just died and I had no friends. She had nothing to complain about. I got seriously annoyed and my mum knew I'd be the one who forced her to die if I carried on talking to her much longer. So she said what she said. It worked. I hope you and your friend work it out.
(PS I wouldn't have meant to force her to kill herself but I have a horrid temper and was so close to screaming at her that she probably would have killed herself!)
I know iI'm not much help. Sorry hun!
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Post by *PreciousPrincess* on Oct 9, 2006 15:51:25 GMT -5
Ooh sorry looks like I'm a bit late!
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