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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 26, 2006 15:25:17 GMT -5
I think she might freak out but, she will just find more. You did do the right thing but, you should also talk to her about it because you can't hide or know everything shes going to get her hands on to cut. I wouldn't be agressive but be passive agressive. Just let her know that your there for her as a friend. Call her up and invite her to where ever your going and show her that she has true friends. Don't push it on her but deffinatly talk to her about it without getting really mad at her.
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Post by [Taboo] on Mar 26, 2006 15:53:01 GMT -5
I do talk to her and tell her that I'm always here for her but I'm just afraid of what going to happen when she dose move and me and everyone else cant be there for her that and..........im still not sure if what we did was the greatest idea.......
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Post by ¤Teen Vibe¤ on Mar 26, 2006 15:57:16 GMT -5
You can still keep in contact though. Like letters, text messaging, phone calls and the interenet. Even though she is gone you can still be there for her.
It depends on what becomes of it if it was a good idea or not but, atleast for that time she cant cut because she doesnt have them. Maybe go stay at her house for awhile?
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Post by [Taboo] on Mar 26, 2006 16:04:07 GMT -5
Yea well she lives in Travis Air Force Base and i cant Get On base With out Her mom Takeing Me on Because I live in Vacaville (town next to Base) so yea other wize i would
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 16:31:08 GMT -5
the best advice that i could give is go there (you know get her mom to let you in) and hvae the biggest talk of your life..telling you how much you care for her...and that you dont want her to hurt herself anymore...yeah there probably is going to be tears flying all around...but you know when that happens squeeze the crap out of her..meaning give her the biggest hug you hvae givin in your life...and tell her you always be there for her..whenever she needs a bucket for tears...or a cuddle bear..or anything like that....i know cause ive been there.... ive gotten the biggest hugs of my life that changed my life and ive given the biggets hugs of my life that help someone else....and it feels great! I hope you get that feeling!!!
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Post by [Taboo] on Mar 26, 2006 17:35:48 GMT -5
Thanks i really might talk to her. but I'm still worried because i just don't want to bombard her with all of this, Ive wanted to give her this web site but i don't know. she might just think that I'm making her do it or some thing like that so I don't know. But i will talk to her.
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 17:50:29 GMT -5
kool...i hope the talk goes well...give an update on what happens if you do...
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Post by [Taboo] on Mar 26, 2006 17:55:54 GMT -5
ok i will but im still not sure if im going to im debateing it with "ashley" right now so ill let you know how it goes and if i do it
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Post by [Taboo] on Mar 26, 2006 18:12:18 GMT -5
Ok so me and "ashley" talked it over and we decided that we arent going to talk to her about it but if worse comes to worse I will
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Post by stars2mind on Mar 26, 2006 18:23:50 GMT -5
ok!! kool....
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Post by Italian Stallion on Mar 26, 2006 21:17:25 GMT -5
why not? shes already cutting herself! how could it be worse she ends up dead from one wrong cut?? the sooner the better I say. Don't let it go another day u never know when she will cut in the wrong spot and hit a vein even if its by accident!
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Post by [Taboo] on Mar 26, 2006 21:28:43 GMT -5
but me and my friend just think will let her deal with the loss of her Razors and maybe she wont be able to get others so well Ill Give it time
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Post by Italian Stallion on Mar 26, 2006 21:29:52 GMT -5
she will find something else trust me shes a cutter she will.
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Post by [Taboo] on Mar 26, 2006 21:30:44 GMT -5
well then ill confront her about it and tell her that i got help now you need it.
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Post by Italian Stallion on Mar 26, 2006 21:31:49 GMT -5
thats a good idea. before something tragic happens
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Post by [Taboo] on Mar 26, 2006 21:33:29 GMT -5
yea ill just wait a wile then ill confront her about it. wait how long should i wait
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Post by Italian Stallion on Mar 26, 2006 21:39:14 GMT -5
i dunnno u never know when it could be someones last cut
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